It has been often said and proven that your happiness cannot be found in another person. Sure we involve
ourselves, develop, build, destroy, reconnect, disconnect, etc from others on a continuous basis, but yet those relationships do not define who we
are as individuals. More so it highlights our social in/eptness.
For a long time I was involved in a relationship with a guy who had a
troubled past. We were complete opposites and totally wrong for each other. Yet I tried to stick it out because
I didn't want to fail at love, being accomplished in so many other areas, and felt socially pressured about being in a relationship, particularly for someone "marriage" aged.
Fast forward eight years later and I'm still not married. Neither do I have any children. But I have reached a level of
emotional maturity where being married and having a family is not an overwhelming priority but would be a welcomed balance to the beautiful chaos known as life.
Getting to a single greater me in order to treasure the awesomeness of my future You.